Their second child is traveling. Of course I'm excited about the prospect of a new addition to your family. You can not wait to hold a baby again - it grows so quickly. Sure, it might not be the first child to protect all ...
The arrival of a child is not only an important event for the parents, but also for all the brothers. Especially if it is not as big an age difference between the first child and the child. Until now, the first childhad the full attention of parents and is now home with items filled in anticipation of the newborn. There are plush toys that do not use, can play small clothes and a lot of talk is probably removed for the big day.
game, not so much that needs a lot of attention and feeding mom, dad and tired to be - what will change the man. This jealousy is, the set can then, of course, after birth, and there is this small amount to cause additional stressfor all concerned. Fortunately, it is not necessarily so. There are some things you can do to go about expanding your family, something that can more easily ...
Introduction Before Birth
There is no doubt that we have already said her major for the imminent arrival of the child. This is a good time to reassure your child that no matter what you love both equally. Depending on the age of your oldest, can you explain that you are probably a bit 'tired, because childrenvery sensitive and need care and stressed that this does not mean less love your firstborn.
It could allow them to touch your stomach and connect with the child, and turn the experience into something very positive - if the baby is big and strong enough, they can play together and it will be fun.
Show confidence in your son or daughter and tell them that if they can help, they want you to look for the child. Of course, such support means moretakes a little 'more, but feel involved.
Introduction after birth
If you decide to give birth in hospital, try to make the first child to visit as soon as possible. E 'for them to see that the mother is important in order and meet his new brother or sister.
You will probably be as small child and want to touch gently surprised. If possible, they may do - touch is a way of binding and may not be allowed to be takenas a sign of mistrust.
It 's also a good time to pamper your oldest and, in particular, to assure them that no place in your heart has been considered by the new addition - you're a family.
Gifts
A recent addition to the family often means the acceptance of gifts for the baby. If you already have a lot of elements to ensure the comfort of the child, might be a good idea to ask the type of family and friends, some small gifts for the first child to buyinstead.
In this way the child does not end with a huge pile of stuffed animals that play is not yet anyway, and will be a party to the oldest as well - what child does not like receiving gifts? There will be plenty, a feeling of celebration for all.
After Care
A child and take care of them physically and emotionally draining and stressful, especially at the beginning. It seems not enough time during the day to do everything and getRest well.
Of course your first baby will do a lot of attention and perhaps a little 'problems, such as adaptation must have all changed, despite all efforts to the contrary.
It 'important to work in teams and others to relax as much as possible and share your attention between the children. Be sure to praise successes in school, show appreciation for art and time Bedtime Story.
If there are relatives or friends in the area,willing to lend a hand, can be useful if you have to visit and spend time with your first child. Perhaps it is offered, you have your child visit, which may be beneficial, especially if they have their own children. But make sure your child does not have the feeling that the "sent away" and they feel excluded.
Also, as you've probably already heard the stories of experienced as a child spent most days relaxing and can often bring a smile to yourFace - is a great way to relax after a long day, and appreciate the many blessings in our lives children lead.
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